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Don’t Just Tell Me to Breathe ~

A page from Angella's chapter of the comic. Angella has brown skin, glasses, and afro puffs. Twelve-year-old Angella tells how her anxiety began when she was in second grade. She pictures her moms in a car crash during PE at school, and has to go home.

Children and teens of “the anxious generation” spill their secrets in a moving, frank, and playful graphic novel for readers ages 8-12, based on interviews with storytellers from all regions of the United States and many races, abilities, and incomes. A companion through one of life’s loneliest experiences and a blueprint for solving the youth anxiety epidemic, Don’t Just Tell Me to Breathe takes young people seriously as thinkers and experts on their own lives.

An 11-year-old told us he considered suicide because of the economy. “Being kind of stressed about how the world is and the economy and stuff like that, [and] if I don’t get good grades, then I won’t get a scholarship, which means that my parents will have to spend a bunch of money for me to go to college. And if I don’t do well in college, then I won’t get a good job.” (Darby, 11) 

A page from Angella's chapter of the comic. Angella has brown skin, glasses, and afro puffs. Angella is playing dolls with her babysitter Hayden, a dark-skinned 20-year-old with an updo. Angella is scared to go outside during the pandemic, but Hayden gets Angella to go on an adventure by giving her a piggy-back ride through the city and getting ice cream cones at a drive-thru.

Why do so many kids and teens wrestle with anxiety? The authors of Don’t Just Tell Me to Breathe looked for answers from young people themselves. Harper Bryant Shin is a 24-year-old comics creator. Dr. Elizabeth A. Wheeler (Betsy), age 67, is a disability studies and comics author/professor and Harper’s mom. Anxious since childhood ourselves, we wanted to know: what’s bothering kids now? So, we asked them! 

We went around the United States, to cities, small towns, and suburbs. We interviewed brave and insightful storytellers ages 11-18 from many races and incomes. We turned their anxiety stories into a graphic novel, to spread understanding, make anxious kids feel less alone, and share the discoveries and adventures of relatable characters. Don’t Just Tell Me to Breathe reflects what kids already know: that they are experts on their own lives and mental health, not the lost phone zombies depicted in scare-mongering media. 

A page from Angella's chapter of the comic. Angella is a third-grader with brown skin, glasses, and afro puffs, sitting on the couch in her living room with her mom and their two dogs. Angella is happy that third grade will be online because of the COVID epidemic, which will help her anxiety. Then, she hears sirens coming through the window, and becomes very anxious again.

Don’t Just Tell Me to Breathe basically invents a new genre. First and foremost, it’s a fun and gripping graphic novel. But it’s three other things as well: a guide to recovering from anxiety, a forum on solving the youth mental health crisis in the United States, and, unlike any other book, a time capsule on anxiety now from stories of children and teens who experience it. 

Do you have a story about anxiety to share with the world? Are you age 18 or younger? We seek more storytellers and pay $50 per interview. Storytellers: contact Harper and Betsy!